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Old Dec 28, 2015, 12:27 PM
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Well the fact that I ALWAYS broke up with them led me to believe I didn't have abandonment issues and I haven't had it confirmed but the fact that I always made sure to end it - even the good things - leads me to believe I have issues. I had guys that were good to me. The kind of guys who would probably take a bullet for me and I fvcked that up. 3 times. But I am SOOOOOO good at fvcking things up. I should probably shut up now. Too much alcohol.

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There are two ways to deal with fear of abandonment. One is hanging on tightly and trying to prevent it from happening, and the other is leaving the other person preemptively (which sounds like what you tended to do). So it's quite possible.
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