I found out that he bought an expensive pair of boots for her. He called me at work trying to find out what time I am going to be home and that he is going to this persons house and that persons house. My kids came running up to me saying look what we got. New pillow pets. I saw them look up and walk away. He was standing behind me telling them to be quiet. Later on I asked who gave you the pillow pets since he named a few different people that he was going to visit. They would not tell me and I said was it her house and thet begged me not to say anything. But I am dying inside. I guess her mother was the one who gave the kids the pillow pets and she did not give him anything. I now know it is him. All him that is obsessed with her. All his lies and excuses was all bs. All this is causing is for me to feel sick. I need a good lawyer.