He tells me it is ok because she is a lesbian and that I am just mad because I don't have someone like her. But he has been secretive about her from the start and not to mention she is 24 and he is 43. I remember a few years ago he was talking on the phone with one of his coworkers and he was telling him how little and cute she is and what a joy it is to have a young woman on the crew. So that has always been in my mind too.