I was once told that when you enter a relationship you have to have an attitude of " what you see is what you get". If there is something you feel you need to change in order to be happy then you are better off moving on.

Marrying or even staying with someone in hopes he or she will change never works. I wasted most of my adult life on men whom I hoped would change: either stop drinking or stop putting other always ahead of me or stop catering to their meddling families or this or do that. What a waste of precious life.

I am now finally with a man who I don't need to change. He isn't perfect ( neither am I) but there is nothing i want different.

Go find a woman who is ready made and need no adjustments.

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