ok question though.... he has never done this before. I am wondering if something happened that I am unaware of to make him feel something that he needed to cover it with alcohol. I am not saying to be his friend on a regular basis again, but what if he is going through something and he needs to talk? I am in no way justifying what he did... but accidents do happen (he wasnt in his right mind..) and I am pretty sure he is embarrassed about it now. He has been keeping his distance as he knows I am very hurt and angry... You think he could learn a lesson form this seeing at it was a first time (well that i know of.. known him for a long time)