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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
It's the therapist's job to help you. If you tell her you drove by, I think she'd ask you 'why?' And it would open up a conversation that maybe you'd like to have. I am sure she has heard it before. You can tell from this thread how common this is. Best wishes,
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I would not say it's a therapist's job to help you if they feel you've transgressed a personal boundary of theirs that they think is important. And I am not at all sure you can assume that the experience is so common: a handful of posters have said they did what the OP did, another handful have said they wanted to, more have said they have no problem with it...none of this means the therapist has heard it before, or knows how to deal with it.
The OP is in the best position to judge her therapist's possible reaction and her own desires about what she wants to happen if she tells her therapist.