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Originally Posted by Quanticia
A question to all you fellow introverts out there: how do you cope with the search for love? How do you "stick" with someone, despite not going out much or not talking much? How do you keep the interest alive?
From the few guys I've gotten along in my 30 yrs, only two didn't friendzone me, the one turned out to be gay and the other wouldn't shut up with the petty small talk... I just don't know how to make it work  (I have ADHD too to make things worse  ) I'm honestly interested in everyone's experience, but links with suggestions that could be helpful are also welcome ^^ |
It is hard. You will have to put yourself out there and actually lool for someone even though that can be hard if you are introverted. I personally have horrible experience with relationships. I don't go outside at all anymore and am depressed an lonely. You have to work hard to keep a relationship especially in this case. Relationships are different for everyone and we all have problems. But trust me if you really want a relationship and you are trying you will find someone you just have to look. If someone can't help you and have a relationship with you regardless of how introverted you are and regardless of your ADHD then they aren't trying. And for a relationship to work both sides have to try or it won't last. I am sorry I don't have much experience and didn't help, your question is an answer I have yet to answer completely myself.