Well i felt the need to provide an update to my post because you guys were right... I found out he was recently arrested for swindling. I know some of your posts indicate he most likely won't change and is pretty much who he is and i got a lucky escape. I think finding out about the swindling and adding that to the info in my post was my confirmation. His court date is pending but i bet it'll just be a slap on the wrist. Seems he gets away with everything. I also see he has started using his online dating profile again!! Here i was thinking he had disappeared to magically become this faithful person for the fiance but looks like he's still attempting to cheat on her. Swindling involved deception and he also used deception to get me. I feel glad i found this out but again still kind of depressed because i had genuine feelings for a false person. I wish i could warn all the women he contacts because seeing him online i know what he is up to and i just feel sad for them.