He is unavailable one way or the other and not interested in anything with you.
That's the reality

My therapist says it's a waste of time trying to figure out why people do what they do as you might never know the answer.

It's much better to focus on what you do and why. Explore why do you pursue a guy who isn't particularly interested? If he was interested certainly he'd pursue you. I wouldn't worry about others telling you how he is in love with you or talk about it or what not. You two don't even know each other. You went out twice and both times with friends. In a long scheme of things it's nothing.

Just because he isn't seeing anyone else doesn't matter either. Many guys don't date at younger age and are busy with other stuff: friends/sports/ etc

Are there nice guys at your school? I'd start looking around. Or wait till college and you sure will meet nice new guys there!

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