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Originally Posted by hazn
I've found that some people are just impossible to understand, and trying to understand them just isn't worthwhile. Why bother, when you can go find someone who actually knows how to be a normal friend. What's frustrating is that there's no consistency. It's extremes in both directions ...either they act like they're absolutely interested in you, or they act like they're absolutely disinterested in you. And this can change at any time. Then you're left thinking... uh... how is this even possible?! Did I do/say something wrong?!
Can you relate to this, or is it just me?
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Oh I totally relate. That is exactly what is happening here. She goes from one extreme to the other. It is very annoying. I definitely no longer consider her a close friend. Close friends do not do that. Sometimes I wonder if she considers me a back up friend since way back when we had a group, she would only talk to me one-on-one. If we were in a group, I was absolutely invisible and nothing to her.