In a former state I figured out where my pdoc lived n drove by his house once in awhile. It was out of my way. In a different state I found out where my t lived n it way on one of 2 ways I had to use to go to the city so often times I would choosethat route in order to drive by that house. It was curiosity. I never stalked. I also never told them.

I have never told my current t what I did in the past but we have clear boundaries and he has made it known he doesn't want me going past his house. Since I don't drive anymore it isn't an option anyway. But I don't think he wants me to Google map him either so I won't.

For me it was curiosity but I wasn't about to tell them about it.