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Old Aug 19, 2007, 06:48 PM
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sister, instead of calling it obsessive, what about letting it happen for the purpose of exploring it? They are just thoughts and thoughts are ok.

Obsession can be about control. Your idea that you've somehow failed therapy is curious too. I wonder if you are thinking you caused T to go away.. that if you were "successful" in therapy, that would have kept him there with you.

I think you're holding him close, in your thoughts.