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Originally Posted by hazn
I think there are many reasons why someone might be like that, and you've mentioned one of them. I get the impression that people who do this are more hedonistic/self-absorbed types. They might turn to you when their other options aren't quite working out, or need something. It makes me suspect they view people more as objects who are to be used for their own interests, rather than actual people. It creates a horrible dynamic, to be honest. I think these types are maybe also more narcissistic. That's the only way I can explain their behavior. Anyway, it's better to spend your time building relationships with people who are able to reciprocate, so just do that instead  |
Yep, I agree with you 100 percent. She can come off as very narcissistic as well. And yeah she just used people, usually for money, food, like she would just start eating other people's food, especially mine, without permission, and uses some people as back up friends. She obviously does not care about me now that I think of it. I agree, it is better to just move in and find other people to talk to and be friends with.