What is your husband's prognosis? Why is he in pain?

I had cancer when I was a child, I inherited it from my father and I have 50% change of passing it on to my children. When I started dating my now husband I was in love and I was very afraid he would end it with me if I told him. But I didn't want to lie so I chose a moment early in our relationship and I told him. He accepted that and we are married now.

The fact that your husband didn't tell you about it is unfair. Was he aware of the risks? Maybe he didn't know it was important.