We have spoken.... he has apologized. We both understand that things are not the same anymore... and I feel he will be keeping his distance. I think he is ashamed of what happened... he said that he was intending to joke around (by hitting me with the fluffy toy) but didnt realized how hard the hit was.... I asked him about the second time... and he says he doesnt remember... so for me... I am not ok. I will still say hello here and there if I see him around... but I will stay a safe distance.