Go a few steps further and tell him what you want from him in life, with out making any accusations. Also you are giving him a conflicting message, of saying stay - go to him. Be sure to answer his questions honestly. Also so tell him you are feeling sad: "Truthfully I feel uncomfortable, sad, and like I don't even know myself let alone him at this point." say this to him truthfully. What you may be feeling may have nothing to do with him, but has much to do with how you are feeling inside yourself.