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Originally Posted by DBTDiva
I really like "queer" to me it feels the most right. You will find what feels right for you. I'm way more complicated than even pansexual so if ever asked to ID I always say "queer" first - it's my way of identifying as non-heterosexual. Beyond that, it really isn't anyone's business IMO. I do feel for myself that it's necessary to ID as not heterosexual especially because I'm in a committed relationship with a cis guy but beyond that unless someone is dating me I don't see why they'd care one way or the other!
I met my bf on OKC but I didn't have much luck for years before that, I guess it only has to work really well once though. Good luck!!
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I have seen queer used as many different definitions for people. I always thought queers were only interested in one sex just women - at least that's how I remember it. On OKC, I saw a queer woman who wanted other queer/lesbian women not bisexuals or anyone hetero.
For me, I like women more but I still have sex with men. My ex calls himself queer and demisexual but he's straight has no interest in men. My attitude is I am just me I have on my OKC profile it doesn't matter which sex I end up with I go by whoever interest me. I can't call it pansexual because I have zero interest in asexuals automatic friend zone.