Join the club! I'm desperately hoping a bad day doesn't mean a bad month. Unicornsareamyth is right, planning events, even small ones to look forward to and at least mark the passage of time.
Our wedding anniversary is just before Christmas, so we now celebrate an 'official' one in January or February.
If the queen can celebrate an official birthday at a better time of year, so can we our anniversary.
Remember, Spring WILL come.

hoping these words help me as well as anyone else, if possible