I voted other. I think we both have power just in different areas. I decide what we discuss and when. If she brings something up I can't our refuse to talk about she gladly changes the subject. I can decide I wasn't therapy to end and if I want to see her at a time she suggests. On the other hand she had control over her bounderies, when she responds to emails. Etc. She also gets to decide the days she will see people. She typically sees people 2 days a weekl but she had the power to agree to another day if needs be. I think therapy I'd like any other relationship it is give and take along with lots of communication. Neither person had all the power.