I like the definition. I remember queer was seen as a negative word and my ex and I used to go to lgbt documentaries haven't been to any in a long time nor read any information lately. He considers himself queer and demisexual queer meaning for him he identifies with his fem. side and can easily identify women's emotions. That is sooo sexy in a man, how many other men are in touch with their fem side? None. The rest would feel it is being gay which is silly.

I consider myself just me if you interest me, we will talk, if not someone else may interest me and I might end up with that person. I got blamed for having a bf when I was with my ex when I should have had more girlfriends well sorry that wasn't the plan falling in love came first. I just don't feel I should broadcast my sexuality for the public like a lot of lgbt do glad they have the strength to do that.

I had a lesbian get irate towards me because I am not out to everyone but she was good for her. I told her I am very private which people hate about me and she felt I was hiding myself **** I have been doing that for years nothing new. I don't need my job or any upcoming jobs that I will get to fire me because of my sexuality. I would have to do more reading on the word queer because pansexual doesn't fit me.