I know exactly how you feel. And I feel - if not exactly the same, then very close to it.

I'll say: Yes - it's you and not him. You are doubting this because you've been told your whole life what love is about - and because you're afraid of missing out. Believe me, I know exactly what you're talking about - yesterday I made a post, not about the exact same thing, but very close to it. If you want to see that other people kan feel much of the same, read my post. You're not alone. And to be honost, I am starting to blame the time that we are living in.

Now, I'm not sure of you're age, but I'm in my twenties. And all my life I've learned, that we have so many opportunities, and that if we stand still for too long, we're missing out on something. This is what we learn all the time. So how do people expect us to be able to just be sattisfied with what we have? We know we should be - but for some reason we just can't. I can't. But I sure won't give up a great relationship because of that feeling. I've asked friends - and they are all like "oh I know that feeling", but then I asked my mum, and she was never in doubt, she never even thought about the possibility of missing out when she was with my father - and their relationship was really bad. So truly, I think we are a product of our time, and it shapes us. It makes us scared of missing out on anything. But we shouldn't let that stop us. So, if you in your heart feels, that you want to marry this man, then do it. Don't wonder so much about the future. Just do what feels like the right thing to do right now, and don't let your anxiety rule you.