I either love or hate my therapists, but I know pretty much on the first visit which way it is going to go. for example, I love my new therapist and I have only met with her twice. While i am not sexually attracted to her or anything like that, I do feel like I am going through withdrawal without her. I tend to fall for the kind and young therapists who are validating and interested in what i have to say. i despise therapists who are even the slightest bit confrontational. Those therapists never lasted long because they would be me shut down and tune out (dissociate?) which wasn't productive for anyone.