I need a life coach, someone to tell me what to do, I guess. NOT a partner.
I've wondered why did we make it through school undetected....structure. You got up because you had to, go to school, go home do homework, repeat. A no brainer for anyone, or a bunch of anyone.
We graduated high school and fell apart and drifted for 30 years, still wandering...
Being hospitalized that one time gave me structure that I liked it. Being in jail several times gave me structure that I didn't mind it. Jail may have been a heftier price, but it was and still is free.
If things get really bad, Club Fed is for me. I couldn't hurt anybody, but I sure can get into a bunch of trouble!