Except for the quick diagnosises she sounds like quite a competent therapist, but a bit too much like you. She might not be organized on the outside but she has her way of doing therapy and sticks with it. Despite outward appearance it seems like you two are both set in your ways. I suspect her wanting you to do abstract is to break your ridged patterns but she should be more flexible and understand that people need to move at their own pace. It doesn't sound like a good fit. Can you discuss breaking the agreement based on conflict of styles.