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Originally Posted by marmaduke
You cope with the son and not the daughter. The mother sounds like she might have a PD taking into account her lies and gaslighting. Could be the daughter has inherited the PD and the son hasn't?
Anyway I don't blame you for not wanting kids. Nothing wrong with that.
Keep separate houses, let him deal with any discipline issues with his children. The children will get older and live their own lives, then it will be your time.
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Yes the mother was dxed with BPD years ago. The son's therapist also thinks the mother has BPD. I think she seems to have NPD sometimes though. I think the daughter is on her way to having BPD, and so does my T although at 11 it's not guarateed. I hope that getting her into her own therapy ASAP will help her learn to emotionally regulate now so she doesn't have years of hardship. BPD s-cks frankly. Basically the son is like his father and the daughter is like the mother. I find it easier to deal with his son because he's not dramatic or attention seeking, plus I think it's easier because he's older.