thanks for replying...... i tried calling her today but didnt reach her, hope she is staying safe.......... i hate to say too that i'm glad this happened, i just hope it will be the real wakeup call she needs...... her little boy needs his mom..... and she's so young, i hope she can turn things around.

it's funny, we ordered dinner the other night and i was thinking a beer would be nice with the food. not wanting to get drunk or anything, just wanting a beer with dinner. but i didn't want her to feel tempted, didnt even want to give her a reason to think about drinking. the soda went down just as tasty.