I thought I was through with raising children too but married a man with two children. One had already left home but the younger one still lived with her mom. Her mom kicked her out at age 16, so we suddenly had a child in the house. It was a disaster. We are still married but it has never been the same. There were many fights causing a rift between all of us. She is now 33 and still pushes my buttons.
You must accept that his children will always come first. If you can't come to terms with that then you need to walk away. I really wish I had.
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