Just got back from t. I didn't play in the sand, although she did ask if I wanted to I said I have been thinking about it lately but didn't commit and just kept talking so we never got back to that. I told her I had a handful of things I could talk about but wasn't sure where to start and listed them off and she asked a question related to the marriage/sexuality one and off we went on that topic. She wanted to role play me as my h and her as me how I would tell him some things and how i think he would react but I said NO so we didn't, but we did toss around some ideas for how i can get a conversation started with my h about the lack of emotional intimacy in our marriage, and she asked if I wanted to talk to him about experimentation outside our marriage and I said no I do not want that, i just want him to understand where i go in my head sometimes, and somehow Wuthering Heights came up and how as we were talking it sounds like I want a Heathcliff, and I mentioned that I thought heathcliff and cathy are in a way each other's shadow and she said jungians have written a LOT about that subject and suggested i research it more, and think about how it relates to my own psychology, and so that's my homework, to research that and write about my own psychology as it relates to that. and she wants me to teach her about it next time. Oops! Time to head to dr # 2 for today. More later!