Are you saying you don't belong in Cincinnati?

Part of being an adult (if you are) is accepting reality. We don't have to like it, but there is no other choice. There are lots of things you can change if you want to. Oh, and other people are not your problem*. The only person you can change is yourself.

*It's normal to get "fed up" with being in the rat race of life. It is just a fact of life. Make changes in your life if you can, accept what you can't change. And take care of yourself.