impala, all my life i have always been the one to try to make things right after an argument or disagreement, even if i was hurt or felt i was in the right..... so if it was me i'd probably try real hard to make things right.... but that's not necessarily the right thing to do. i think you need to weigh things out..... is this person's friendship worth the hurt? can you trust her? maybe i'm not the best one to be answering this but i think you need to make sure you take care of yourself first and foremost...... if she hurt you and has not made any attempt to contact you i'm not sure she's a real friend worthy of your effort...... sorry if this is the wrong thing to say its just my opinion......