You're afraid of him, aren't you?

I'm so sorry. Is there anyone that can help you when you talk to him?

I really am sorry for what you are going through, and this guy has completely taken advantage of your generosity and is now causing you to question yourself as to what kind of person you are. Don't go achangin', love.

This guy deserves nothing more from you. Just be firm that you cannot help him. You just can't. It's sad, but he will find someone else to mooch off of.

Unfortunately, I've been in this situation. I dated a guy like this. He took and took until I said no more. And I still stand by it.

It's not bad to be generous. We all misjudge people. But if you feel you are being taken advantage of, listen to your gut. It's taken me a long time to trust mine, too.

Good luck and I hope everything works out.