it sounds like I want a Heathcliff, and I mentioned that I thought heathcliff and cathy are in a way each other's shadow and she said jungians have written a LOT about that subject and suggested i research it more, and think about how it relates to my own psychology, and so that's my homework, to research that and write about my own psychology as it relates to that. and she wants me to teach her about it next time. Oops! Time to head to dr # 2 for today. More later!