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Originally Posted by DBTDiva
Yeah I used to think labels were helpful but there are sooooo many now.
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I agree.
I had a lesbian friend who was more concerned about labeling me than I was. It was a bit weird because I don't like having labels, I rather just "be". The first time she asked, I was pissed at guys so I said "asexual!" She later pressed me with the question again. I told her that I'm looking for a guy but I can't completely rule out a relationship with another female. She then gave me some new label based on that as well as the fact that I'd be open to dating a transsexual. For the life of me I can't remember what label she gave me! Nor do I care.
I'm attracted to whomever I'm attracted to. Period. But, at the same time I do have my preferences (we all do).
I think we'll all come full circle and at some point in the future, labels won't matter. The only label that will matter in the end is "human" because really, we're all the same underneath it all.