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Old Dec 30, 2015, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
Thank you, Jane. If you mean a woman partner, you could be right but that's not an option for me. I do have a few close women friends with whom I connect on a deep emotional level that satisfies me, though. I realize most men don't relate that way but there must be some that do. Maybe. Do sensitive, caring, romantic men exist or are they only in books and movies?

I thought they don't exist either as I have been always attracted to rather matcho difficult men.

My t ensured me that they do exist, I just never attracted them or never was attracted to them. I only attracted what was familiar. And familiar was unhealthy due to my family's dynamics.

My t also said we attract people at our own level. When we are unhealthy we attract unhealthy partners. When we are unavailable that's who we attract. I think she is right

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Thanks for this!
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