I too can't control how angry I get! If I lose my daughter's pacifier I literally look day and night until I find it. I get really mean and aggressive. My husband always tells me to get over it and that we can just buy another but him saying that just makes me even more mad! After I find it, I feel stupid for being upset about and sometimes even while I'm mad I realize how stupid it is for me to almost be obsessive but I cannot control it.