thanks for everyone's replies.

I am happy for her if she remains to be single. I just want her to be happy with herself if that is the choice she makes. I know other women who remained to be single and are happy. They have no qualms about having a partner. But they are absolutely sure about themselves of not being in any long term relationship.

I just want her to be absolutely sure if she wants to go this way. Not have any regrets. I agree the break will be good for her to find her way. I also hope she no longer has any contact with the Mr. on and off. (Personally I've been obsessed thinking about the guys she's been with that have all hurt her. I deeply want bad things to happen to them. But I guess that's a different topic in another forum).

If that is the path she takes and shes' happy I am happy for her too. Shes been travelling to beautiful places with her friends (I am so jealous), she's learning some newer ways of life like learning yoga and meditation, and she's opening her mind up to things she may not have before.