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Old Dec 31, 2015, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by 3RMF View Post
Thank you and I appreciate your nice words. I don't necessarily like comparing myself to others, but I do feel jealous and resentful when I see guys that are better looking than me get a lot of female attention. It just makes me feel ugly. I also don't think being quiet is bad but I hate feeling alone and knowing that no one notices me. How would therapy help my confidence?

Feeling Jealous and Resentful IS comparing your self to others. As far as those "Other" guys, I wonder what kind of "Female Attention" they getting, and how long it will last. It might be the kind of attention that you should avoid. Look for people who are deeper in spirit than those who want looks alone. It is also possible, that those other so called handsome men, may turn into toads as they age.

Therapy can help you understand your growing up. That is where problems with self confidence starts.