I think you are doing a good job of trusting again after what your ex-T did to you. Your new T sounds like a good one and it seems to me like you can begin to move on and heal from what happened. You have already learned to trust again. That is a good step in the healing direction. I am proud of you and I am also sorry for what you had to deal with. It still blows me away that a therapist can act in that way and not care about what they are putting there clients through. I think its a good thing to trust your new T. I would still be careful but from what I have learned, you cant project your trust issues into a new T that hasn't done anything. You have to just trust and have faith that it will work out. As someone else said, there are no guarantees with anyone but you have to trust sometimes and give people a chance. They might turn out to be one of the best people in your life.