Maybe it helps to think of it in different terms - instead of T being the "perfect T for me!" just change the phrasing (I think that can help how we think of things) - "My current T is a good fit for me."

Because you know what, lots of things can be a good fit. I have three pairs of jeans that all fit a little different and they're all good fits But I might feel very limited if I declared one pair of jeans the perfect pair XD