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Old Jan 01, 2016, 01:42 AM
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Maybe it helps to think of it in different terms - instead of T being the "perfect T for me!" just change the phrasing (I think that can help how we think of things) - "My current T is a good fit for me."

Because you know what, lots of things can be a good fit. I have three pairs of jeans that all fit a little different and they're all good fits But I might feel very limited if I declared one pair of jeans the perfect pair XD
Even saying "a good fit" is scary. Thinking that current T is safe scares me because I thought ex-T was safe. But I have to stop comparing. My gut might have been wrong about ex-T, but that doesn't mean it can't be right. I really don't think she is going to abandon me.
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