You're probably feeling these things because of the guilt trip that she gave you. I was just exclaiming to someone about their own mum, how after all the unpleasant things in their life I couldn't believe they'd cower and allow their mum to dictate to their own little girl. That just because her mum's older, doesn't make her wiser and because of her own life, her mum truly shouldn't have say in how she raises her kids, much like my own father lost his right to an opinion in how I raise mine by virtue of messing up big time in raising me.

My mum would push her fears on me, too. There's a couple of things that she literally prevented me from doing, some she didn't. Just like when after college I started looking for my own apartment. It created a rift. For one, there was the loss of financial support from me. For example, before I finished school they relied on child support income. Then after that ended and I was back home after graduating and working two jobs, there was dependence on my contribution of part of my pay to them.

The argument she and I had about my moving out, never left my soul and it was a painful, traumatic wound. I had talked it through with her own mum, my grandmother.

So, the likelihood of all these horrible things is slim to none. What a guilt trip she gave and how horrible to not support you. Google some self defense skills and watch some videos. Empower yourself and Enjoy!



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