I'd like to add to that.Making the busy excuse all the time.My aunt and uncle never have time for anyone. They always say they are so busy.But my Aunt has not worked in over 25 years.You have to be dying for them to care.The reason i say that.Is one relative of mine got ignore by them.Then he got cancer and then all of a sudden they had time for him.When they had no time for him for who knows how long.