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Originally Posted by ladytiger
Nobody said we are hating on single parents, I am not hating on them just sharing my experience and views on if I could short term date one. For me, I'd rather date a person with grown kids that's better than trying to understand a minor's mindset.
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The thing is, that isnt what you said. You said you dont believe any single parent should date. If you had said, I dont want to date a single parent that would be reasonable. I believe what you said was "It's selfish to drag another human being to their messed up life.". I mean, can you imagine the uproar if I said mentally ill people shouldnt be allowed to date and invite people into their messed up life? Or people with cancer. And kids arent even a negative or a disease.
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be a step parent, But there is also nothing wrong with a single parent dating.