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Old Jan 01, 2016, 05:12 PM
ladytiger ladytiger is offline
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The thing is, that isnt what you said. You said you dont believe any single parent should date. If you had said, I dont want to date a single parent that would be reasonable. I believe what you said was "It's selfish to drag another human being to their messed up life.". I mean, can you imagine the uproar if I said mentally ill people shouldnt be allowed to date and invite people into their messed up life? Or people with cancer. And kids arent even a negative or a disease.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be a step parent, But there is also nothing wrong with a single parent dating.
I didn't say that. I said they should date each other, it does make it hard for single parent to date someone with kids. the constant *****ing from a single parent can't getting any dates is they should stick to other single parents since their commonality are the kids. I can tell you disagree with my stance on it, but that's fine. My life isn't gonna be messed up over it. Hmm, how would you like it if a single parent brought his or her kids with them on a date with you? That right tells me they couldn't find a suitable sitter to watch the kids for a while. I find it irresponsible to bring your kids with you on our date yet alone I gotta listen to them be obnoxious at a dinner table in public.

I have told a few single parents long ago the agreement is don't bring the kids with you to our meeting otherwise I am walking away and they agreed. Nothing wrong with being a step parent, that's true and true for others who feel the same way. I, for one, never agreed to be the step parent to their kids. Like I said, I don't relate to kids at all only relate to adults since I didn't like kids growing up and I was placed into a mini adult role that I shouldn't have been in the 1st back then. I live in an apt complex with noisy *** disrespectful kids, do I really want to date someone who has kids like that? What single parents do is their biz, don't bring your kids with you to adult activities is how I feel...