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Old Jan 01, 2016, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted by ladytiger View Post
I didn't say that. I said they should date each other, it does make it hard for single parent to date someone with kids. the constant *****ing from a single parent can't getting any dates is they should stick to other single parents since their commonality are the kids. I can tell you disagree with my stance on it, but that's fine. My life isn't gonna be messed up over it. Hmm, how would you like it if a single parent brought his or her kids with them on a date with you? That right tells me they couldn't find a suitable sitter to watch the kids for a while. I find it irresponsible to bring your kids with you on our date yet alone I gotta listen to them be obnoxious at a dinner table in public.

I have told a few single parents long ago the agreement is don't bring the kids with you to our meeting otherwise I am walking away and they agreed. Nothing wrong with being a step parent, that's true and true for others who feel the same way. I, for one, never agreed to be the step parent to their kids. Like I said, I don't relate to kids at all only relate to adults since I didn't like kids growing up and I was placed into a mini adult role that I shouldn't have been in the 1st back then. I live in an apt complex with noisy *** disrespectful kids, do I really want to date someone who has kids like that? What single parents do is their biz, don't bring your kids with you to adult activities is how I feel...
I guess the mindset has to be different. I personally dont mind kids and enjoy getting to act like a kid with them. If they brought them for dinner occasionally I would view it as them trying to see how we all get along. I understand not being a kid person. Not everyone is and some people are triggered by them or whatever. Makes sense to possibly avoid them. Just as long as its okay for people who do like kids to not be looked down upon for it too.