(((((((((((((ww)))))))))))))Im so sorry. I wish there's something I can say/do that will make you feel better.

The news is bad enough, but the way you found out, and the reactions of your brother, etc. just made things worse.

Maybe you can find some comfort in keeping the memories of her with you, and keep in touch with her husband.

I hope you keep talking to here. I'm here for you, as I'm sure others are too. Maybe somehow, you can draw some strength from the people here.

You've been taking care of everyone else, please try to take care of yourself too.

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