Thanks Biiv for the input.

Just to note, when people start trying to justify why something should be & I should decide to go along with it....that is a huge red flag that tells me they are full of #$!) & I definitely decide against going with what they want me to do.

That just reinforces my gut feelings that say no way is that what I want for me.

I also read a blog about choices which also ties with decidion making. It just reinforced the feelings I spoke about when I went to the web site with all the bar stools. Being overwhelmed with our choices makes our decision process even harder at times.

Debbie