I remember being on a first date with a man who talked non-stop about his ex girlfriend. I never went out with him again.

I also dated a man who talked constantly about a female "friend" of his. I began to get the feeling that she was more than just a friend.

I could never be in a relationship where the man was still emotionally hooked up with another person, whether ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, or some woman he wanted but couldn't have. There is no future with people like this.