We live in a time where single parenthood is commonplace. None of us knew/knows who it is we will fall in love with but I suppose we can decide whether or not to take a relationship far enough to the point of loving someone.
To some I guess it is a deal-breaker and to others it is not. I very much admire everyone for making the decision either way.

OP, I hope you have plenty of support whatever you decide. Hugs to you.