Hi there Patty,

Just to let you know, good thing can come from a Christian dating site. My horse vet here in California, who is also our age (55+) was on a Christian dating site. He met a wonderful woman in Texas & started getting to know her. They ended up married just a few years ago. He had a horrible first marriage that would have made anyone not want to get involved again, but he took a chance & wow. She is really awsome & they have so much in common. They make the best couple you could ever imagine.

Sometimes our past leaves scars & makes us feel that we couldn't possibly have anything better & we are afraid to even look. Sometimes when the right time comes, or the right person, it is important to at least look. We can always end a relationship if we learned from our past experiences.....& if we see something we don't like, we can stop it....as long as you don't let your emotions take over, & look at the relationship objectively, you could find something that really does work.

The most important thing is that you know yourself & know what you are willing to deal with & what you aren't willing to deal with & don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to or don't feel comfortable doing.

Those are my rules to live by,
Debbie